It’s sometimes not until after your vows that the true signs of narcissism become apparent. In relationships, narcissism can make it challenging to sustain a healthy and loving bond.
What is Narcissism?
Narcissism falls under the category of a personality disorder but the clinical name for those with pronounced symptoms of narcissism is called Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Personality disorders are conditions in which people, ordinary human beings, have traits that cause them to feel and behave in socially distressing ways.
It may be the same qualities that attracted you to your partner, such as confidence, assertiveness, and a big personality, that fuel their narcissism.
Discover the signs and characteristics of this personality disorder in your spouse with the following 5 signs:
#1 Violating your boundaries
It is common for narcissists to believe they are above such rules and limitations.
As if those things were set for everyone but them. Therefore, the narcissist either doesn’t even realize they invaded someone’s privacy, or they simply don’t care.
#2 Lack of Empathy
Understanding and processing how others feel is empathy. The majority of people experience empathy naturally and intuitively. Narcissists, on the other hand, lack the ability to understand and relate to others’ emotions. It is very common for a narcissist to show no remorse or guilt for their upsetting actions.
#3 they are very manipulative
They will do whatever it takes to get what they want. Throughout the relationship, your spouse will make subtle threats. They might not say anything directly, but you’ll sense they expect bad things to happen if you don’t give in to their demands.
Sometimes, it is just easier to follow their wishes even if you don’t really agree with them.
#4 Taking Advantage.
Narcissists are experts at taking advantage of their spouses financially if there’s one thing they know how to do.
You might be paying for everything while your spouse can’t find work, or they might be earning a lot of money but not showing it to you.
They do not help around with bills or expenses or responsibilities they feel they’re too good for that they feel they’re too above that and you need to serve them all the time.
#5 They Gaslight you
That was not what I said! You’re being paranoid! No one can love you as I do.
Narcissists tend to ask and say these questions and phrases regularly. A narcissist manipulates your perception of reality by using words or behaviours to create doubt and confusion.
The people around you may start to think that the problem lies with you rather than with your partner if your spouse does this in front of family and friends. On the surface, your spouse appears so charming that it can be difficult for others to see what really goes on behind closed doors.
As a result, if your partner is emotionally abusive and is unwilling to change their behaviour, you should consider ending the relationship. Every individual is capable of being self-centered at times; however, the narcissist seems incapable of acting any other way.
